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Sorry to hear this! But he seems flakey. I think you should talk to him about where you stand and then if you don’t agree or aren’t on the same page, it’s best to pull the plug.
Good luck!
This is a 2 year old post. I wish people would quit digging up old posts. I don’t know how they do it, but the person they are writing to is never going to see it, because they are long gone!
Admin-is it not possible to get posts to automatically close for replies a specified length of time after the last update. I’m sure I’ve seen other sites do that.
Mod update: Indeed, this is a pretty old post! If you’d like to post more about this topic, you’re welcome to do so in a fresh new thread!
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Since it was brought up, I’ll say a little more on the topic of “old threads”…
You bring up a good point, Jo. It is indeed possible to auto-lock old threads, but that part isn’t really the blocking issue with that. What I’ve been mulling-over is the need to solve is the “human factors” aspect of the issue. If someone reads an old thread and feels compelled to talk about the subject – especially if their topic is “hey, this happened to me too!” – then I want to be able to (gently) direct our participants to open up a new thread from the same form. That gets more tricky. Handling that “the right way” is really important to me because I don’t want to put up perceived barriers in the way of posting.
Well that, and finding time to spend on it! :)
But having said that… it definitely seems like a lot of old threads are getting resurrected lately. (As annoying as it is to the community, it’s a “good thing” for the site itself. More and more people are finding threads that they think are applicable to them, and that’s nice.) I’m going to see if I can find time for a stopgap solution to help improve this, hopefully it’s something I can do this month.
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