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Mya
We matched in early March me [23 F] and him [31 M] but couldn’t meet because of coronavirus. From the start, he would take a day or so to reply to my messages but I could see he was very rarely active on the app. I sent him my number so we could talk off the app, but now he always takes 4 days to reply to my messages. When he does, they are long and seems interested in what I’m doing. His messages are probs around 150 words! He told me ‘sorry about the late response, I’m not a very good texter’. Do I still have a chance?
would a guy keep on messaging if he’s not interested? Is he just keeping a healthy level of contact seeing as we’ve never met?
I noticed he’s stopped using the app over the last few weeks as he hasn’t been active.
Newbie
Why are you tormenting us here with the same question over an over. This is post 8 and you never bother to check the other ones for the responses. God jesus please stop
Newbie
You also keep changing your name and were warned already once by anm staff to not post the same thing over and over
Liz Lemon
what Newbie said!
No, a guy would not keep messaging if he were not interested.
Yes, he is keeping a healthy level of contact (once every few days) since you two have not met.Now will you please stop posting the same question over and over! If you are this anxious about dating it will not go well when you finally meet him. You should not be this hung up over a guy you’ve never met, that you’ve been messaging a couple of times a week for the past month. It’s not healthy.
ANM StaffKeymasterHi Mya, thanks for sharing your question with the community. As some others have pointed out, we’re wondering, have you posted a similar question here before?
Please do respond! It is important to me to have an answer.
ANM StaffKeymasterI’ll elaborate a little: The reason why our community members are reacting this way is that it’s generally considered rude to post a similar question again without acknowledging the opinions shared in a previous thread. It gives people a feeling that you are not listening, or being disingenuous.
Anyway, I’ll be direct: Please respond to this thread, and let me (and the community) know whether this is the first time you are posting on this forum, or if you’ve posted similar questions before. I also invite you to take the opportunity to respond to our community members who have taken the time and emotional energy to respond to you – let them know you appreciate their responses!
Thanks, and best wishes to you!
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