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T from NY.
Danny
I would like to know if ANY man (single/married) would pursue a woman for a booty call? The guy is into me, and we have not been intimate in any way nor have I flirted with him the whole 10 years that I have known him. He is taken, so I have kept him off my radar and refused his flirting. It’s been 10 years and he is still going strong. I am ok with a booty call, but I feel that if I give in, it may turn out more than that given the time that he has put in? Am I over thinking this?
Tallspicy
Yes, he is taken, which make both of you a mess. Why do you even indulge in this at all?
No, he will think you are pathetic and lose interest if you give in. Or he will see he cannot he with you because relationships that start like this end poorly because neither of you is trust worthy.
If you are interested, simply say, end your other relationship, be single for 6 months and then give me a call and I might consider it.
kaye
Why would you consider a booty call with a taken man? And you haven’t made it clear what exactly he has done to “pursue” you for 10 years. Flirting with you for 10 years isn’t a big deal. I’ve had married and single guys who are just big flirts who have flirted with me for decades and it didn’t change the fact it was never going to happen and I knew they were never going to leave their significant other even if it did happen.
Just what exactly has he done to pursue you?
T from NY
I separate the real men by calling them men – the guy you’re describing is a just a pathetic cheater. Yuck. And yes, some of those types can pursue FOREVER because that’s the only they do. They don’t invest in their character or the relationship they already have. They aren’t introspective and desire growth and intimacy. They are shallow and chase tail because it allows them to be distracted and only feel surface level feelings and not develop authentic connections.
PS there are no prizes for resisting these types of humans. A woman with dignity and that looks out for other women would not even entertain them.
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