Home › Forums › Dating and Sex Advice › Wrong to send him a bikini pic?
- This topic has 28 replies and was last updated 4 years ago by
Maria.
-
AuthorPosts
-
Penny
Sending bikini pics is a dicey thing. I used to do that but I wised up because the men always thought I wanted sex but what I was showing them was at 57, I still can wear a bikini. Now, I get tempted to do so, but I don’t because it seems to send the wrong message. It’s better to wait on that, until later in the dating process.
Kira
Never nudes! I have heard of girls being pressured by guys into sending nudes but I don’t know why anyone would do that willingly. I am definitely from a generation that are much more open about our bodies; I know that what I sent was tasteful and are pics that if my father saw them he wouldn’t be disappointed because they are just vacation pics!
BUT I hear what you ladies are saying about men being men and what he might be doing with them. If he does end up being my boyfriend i’ll ask him one day, and if not, hopefully it’s not because I sent bikini pics! I’ll let you know how the date goes. Much love to you all, even the bitter ones x x
Hannah
Kira, honestly it isn’t a big deal. If has got a more sexual impression of you, that’s easy to fix by not jumping into bed with him early on anyway.
I had to tell my husband I’d been sleeping with his friend on my first date with him! It turns out he’d also heard false gossip I’d been with someone else he knew. That didn’t exactly give him a good first impression of me, but it didn’t put him off and I was careful to make sure we didn’t lead with sex in the relationship.
Maria
Very interesting that I came here to ask the same question. I was introduced to a man in his mid 40’s and we have been talking for almost two weeks. I am a bit older. He had been calling. He is not much of a text guy. He asked for pics and I sent a couple and he also sent me a couple. I was on vacation in South America and he said if I could send him a pic of me hanging out in one of our amazing beaches just relaxing. I avoided his requests a twice and the last time we talked this past Saturday evening he asked again. I had one pic on my phone of me on a boat. He wanted a bikini pic. It is a very decent pic. My bikini is pretty conservative and I feel good on the picture. Guess what?
He ghosted me after that last call and photo exchange. I called once and texted once. He completely ghosted me. I feel like crap. It was the picture in a bikini? It was what?
The lesson I learned is to keep the bikini picture for late in the relationship. This way you will not be feeling like I do right now. He made a bad judgement if me based on me sending the pic. Might think I send it to other man as well. Either way I feel like crap. I really though he was handsome and we were supposed to have our first date next week. -
AuthorPosts
